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Former Elmendorf NCO escorts Lady GaGa to MTV awards to support DADT repeal

Wednesday, 15 September 2010 – 6:54 AM | 2 Comments
Former Elmendorf NCO escorts Lady GaGa to MTV awards to support DADT repeal

Lady Gaga won 8 MTV Video Music Awards on Sunday, and former Elmendorf AFB staff sergeant David Hall (far right in photo) escorted her to the show, along with three other service members who lost their military careers because of the ban against open service by gays and lesbians, a policy known as “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” (DADT).

Lady Gaga spoke in favor of repealing DADT when she accepted her award for Best Female Video for “Bad Romance” and thanked the four “discharged soldiers” who came with her, adding “And thank you to all the gays for remaking this video over and over again.”

Her escorts were former U.S. Air Force Staff Sargent David Hall; former U.S. Air Force Major Mike Almy; top West Point cadet Katie Miller, who resigned in August in protest of DADT; and Former U.S. Army Sargent First Class Stacy Vasquez.

David Hall was a decorated Elmendorf NCO before starting officer training at the University of Alaska, Anchorage, and was a top student in the Air Force ROTC. He was dis-enrolled from the ROTC because a female cadet suspected he was having a relationship with Jack Glover, another UAA airman, and told their superior officer. Both men were kicked out because of the DADT policy.

A federal judged ruled DADT unconstitutional last week, but the government is expected to appeal the decision. The U.S. House already passed a repeal of DADT, and the Senate vote is scheduled for next week.

Call your Senators today at 202-224-3121 and urge them to repeal the policy!

Senotor Begich supports repeal, while Sen. Murkowski is undecided. But she voted for the Hate Crimes Act after hearing from Alaskan voters. She lost the GOP nomination and has not announced a write-in campaign, so she might be persuaded to vote for the Defense Budget and the DADT repeal.

In Feb. 2008, KTVA in Anchorage aired a special report on David Hall and “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” (one of the first videos ever posted on Bent Alaska).

This week, Hall was interviewed by MTV about escorting Lady GaGa to the Video Music Awards:

“We met her before the show last week and told her our stories, and that’s when she said she wanted to do more,” said David Hall, 36, a former member of the Air Force who was booted out in August 2002 after a female cadet told his commander that he was gay and in a relationship. When confronted, Hall said he told his commanding officer he had no comment, but “he took her word for it over mine,” and Hall, a five-year veteran, was discharged.

“We talked to [Gaga] for a bit and she said, ‘It would be great if I could bring you to the VMAs,’ ” he said. A longtime Gaga fan, Hall was ecstatic about the idea, but said it seemed unlikely that they could pull it off on such short notice. But when you’re Lady Gaga and you have 13 VMA nominations, it seems anything is possible.

“I just kept thinking, ‘How can we get this together? Can we do it that fast?’ ” Hall said. “To my surprise, we were able to pull it off.”

Hall and three of his cohorts — Katie Miller, Stacy Vasquez and Mike Almy — ended up walking the white carpet with Gaga and chatting with MTV’s Sway before they took their seats right behind Gaga in the Nokia Theatre in some of the most primo spots in the house.

Hall has been working with the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network (SLDN.org) since 2006, helping the advocacy organization push to have “Don’t Ask” repealed. He said even with all the work he’s been doing for the organization, having Gaga spread the word to her 6 million Twitter followers and millions of VMA viewers was a huge boost.

“I’ve done tons of media over the past four years … but I knew she would reach out to her Little Monsters and tell them about the repeal of ‘Don’t Ask’ on the white carpet and [it would have a huge impact],” he said. “You couldn’t ask for a better person to do it. She’s very genuine. It’s not some ploy to get attention. She really wanted to know about the repeal and why we need to get rid of ‘Don’t Ask.’ ”

… Gaga’s decision to use the VMA platform to publicize the attempt to push the repeal of “Don’t Ask” through — a commitment President Obama made during his campaign and which he has repeatedly said is his goal — came at just the right time, according to Hall.

“The Senate is just coming back and we’re hoping that they will pass something this month,” he said, noting that Democratic control of Congress could possibly be weakened if Republican candidates score key victories in the November elections, which could set the repeal process back once again. “We were telling her that it is very important to speak out on this now,” Hall said of SLDN’s message to Gaga, who paid for the service members to fly out to Los Angeles for the VMAs.

In addition to their swank seats and walk down the carpet, Hall said the organization members met with Gaga as she was prepping for the show earlier in the day Sunday to go over talking points. They also were invited to attend the post-VMA party put on by Gaga’s Interscope Records label, where they chatted with Mother Monster and her actual mother, Cynthia Germanotta.

Hall’s highlight? “She gave us a shout-out during the acceptance for her first award,” he said. “And the interview with Sway on the white carpet … But every time Lady Gaga won, it was great. And when she won Video of the Year, I loved her meat outfit.”

Video: Lady Gaga Introduces Special Guests On VMA White Carpet

2010 MTV Video Music AwardsMore VMA Video

David Hall is currently the Development Director & Information Technology Manager of SLDN.

Announcing the Alaska LGBT Community Survey

Tuesday, 14 September 2010 – 6:19 AM | Comments Off on Announcing the Alaska LGBT Community Survey
Announcing the Alaska LGBT Community Survey

Crossposted from alaskacommunity.org.

Identity Reports (1989) and One in 10 (1986)

In the 1980s, the nonprofit organization Identity, Inc. conducted two major research efforts to profile Alaska’s lesbian/gay/bisexual community and to document sexual orientation bias in Alaska.

One in Ten: A Profile of Alaska’s Lesbian & Gay Community (1986) provided the first statewide portrait of Alaska’s lesbian and gay (and to some extent bisexual) population, describing our experiences of coming out, of discrimination, our physical and emotional health, religious and political affiliations, demographic characteristics, and a general needs assessment. Identity Reports: Sexual Orientation Bias in Alaska(1989) focused on discrimination and bias, documenting 84 actual instances of antigay bias, discrimination, harassment, or violence (including three murders) around the state, as well as the positive willingness of 20% of landlords and 31% of employers in the Anchorage area to discriminate against persons who were — or were perceived to be — gay or lesbian.

A lot has changed in the two-and-a-half decades since. There’s a lot more live-and-let-live, a lot more acceptance of lesbians and gays. Yet the continuing legacy of antigay prejudice and discrimination persists. Arguably, prejudice against transfolk is even more virulent — often even within our own community.

One of the chief arguments used by opponents of last year’s Anchorage Ordinance 64 — which would have added sexual orientation and gender identityto the Municipality of Anchorage’s equal rights code — was that there was no evidence of discrimination against LGBT people. This claim was made in spite of the weight of evidence provided in One in Ten and Identity Reports. But of course, that evidence was two decades old, so ordinance opponents found it easy to ignore; and they found it just as easy to close their ears to the public testimony of Anchorage LGBT residents who stepped forward to testify to very recent experiences of discrimination and bias — even as one opponent openly told the Assembly that he’d once beaten a gay man so badly that he put him in the hospital.

And so — we’ve decided to bring One in Ten up-to-date by conducting a new statewide survey — the Alaska LGBT Community Survey. Like its predecessor, the Alaska LGBT Community Survey aims to create a profile of our community in all its diversity and with all its diverse concerns; and as we did in 1985-86, we’ll use the survey as vehicle to solicit case histories to document our community’s continuing experiences with discrimination, harassment, and violence. Unlike One in Ten, the Alaska LGBT Community Survey will include transfolk as well as gay, lesbian, and bisexual folk, in the design of the survey questionnaire as well as in filling it out.

We’re in a very early stage right now. We just made the firm commitment to do this last week! But we wanted to tell you about it right away.

We aim to have at least initial results of our survey by April 2011. For more and continuing information as we go along:

We’ll also doing our best to keep you updated through our regular LGBT news channels such as Bent Alaska, TransAlaska Pipeline, Grrlzlist, the Alaska GLBT News maillist, and — well, yeah, my own blog, Henkimaa.

Stay tuned!

— Melissa S. (Mel) Green

Learn more about Identity Reports and One in Ten.

Memorial today for Richard Welch

Monday, 13 September 2010 – 5:32 AM | Comments Off on Memorial today for Richard Welch
Memorial today for Richard Welch

Richard WelchCommunity member Richard Welch of Fairbanks passed away last week. He is survived by his partner, their children and their extended family. His friends are invited to a memorial and celebration of his life on Monday, Sept. 13 at 2 p.m. at Chapel of Chimes followed by lunch at Pike’s.

“I had the pleasure of working with Richard for many years at The Palace Saloon and Club G,” wrote Anna Kegley. “We became very close friends & kindred spirits working together for the GLBT community on countless functions to raise funds for charities that serve the community.

“He is/was one of my dearest friends, I love and miss him with all my heart. His partner Misha and he have been together for 18 years. My heart is heavy for him and wish him peace going on without his Richard.”

Richard Daniel Welch (1959-2010)

The family of Richard Daniel Welch invites his friends to celebrate his life Monday, Sept. 13, at Chapel of Chimes on Illinois Street. We will gather at 2 p.m. for an informal memorial before engaging in one of Richard’s favorite pastimes, a nice, leisurely lunch at a local restaurant. Please bring your love, memories and appetites.

Richard passed away Sept. 7, 2010, surrounded by his family and friends. He was born Sept. 20, 1959, in Bradenton, Fla., to Jack Welch and Adriana (Mickie) Nyberg.

Richard spent his early life in and around Tampa Bay. His family came to Alaska during the construction of the trans-Alaska oil pipeline. He attended Main School and graduated from North Pole High School.

He resided in Florida until 1991 when he returned to Fairbanks. He made many friends while working as a bartender for the Palace Saloon and Club G and volunteering for the Interior AIDS Association. Richard later returned to college and received a degree from the University of Alaska Fairbanks.

Richard was preceded in death by his father, Jack Welch.

He is survived by his mother, Mickie Nyberg of Steinhatchee, Fla.; his sisters, Jackie Welch and Theresa Morin of Fairbanks; his brother, John of Tampa, Fla.; his partner, Michael Streiffert and their children, Nick Streiffert and Adriana Welch of Fairbanks.

Richard brought joy to us all and will be sorely missed.

The family would like to thank the kind people at Denali Center who took such good care of him this last year and to the staff and volunteers of the Hospice of the Tanana Valley who helped all of us through this difficult time.

Arrangements were entrusted to Chapel of Chimes Funeral Home.

Sign Richard’s Guest Book

Condolences to his family and friends.

Sara’s News Roundup 9/12/10

Sunday, 12 September 2010 – 1:16 PM | Comments Off on Sara’s News Roundup 9/12/10
Sara’s News Roundup 9/12/10
Note: My shoulder is much better, good enough to embed Sara’s links again. Thanks for your patience and support! – Ed.
Recent LGBT news selected by Sara Boesser in Juneau, Alaska.
New York, 365Gay.com, September 8, 2010
Montana, Montana Kaimin, September 8, 2010
Durham, NC, Daily Tar Heel, September 9, 2010
New Zealand, Pink News, August 31, 2010
Brattleboro, Vermont, Brattleboro Reformer, September 2, 2010
Australia, Herald Sun September 7, 2010
Chicago, Chicago Pride, June 1, 2010
JohnShore.com, August 31, 2010
Suite 101, May 11, 2008
Huffington Post, August 23, 2010
Dearborn, MI, Pres & Guide, September 7, 2010
New York, WCAX, September 7, 2010
365Gay.com, September 9, 2010
Cuba, Care2.com, September 5, 2010
Washington, US News and World Report, September 9, 2010
Cebu, Philipines, PhilStar.com, September 10, 2010
Las Vegas, Advocate, September 11, 2010

Imperial Court crowns Emperor & Empress, gives awards & scholarships at Coronation

Saturday, 11 September 2010 – 7:33 AM | Comments Off on Imperial Court crowns Emperor & Empress, gives awards & scholarships at Coronation
Imperial Court crowns Emperor & Empress, gives awards & scholarships at Coronation

Congratulations to the new Emperor and Empress of the Imperial Court of All Alaska: Cory and Paige!

The top title holders were announced at Coronation, along with the Court’s community awards and student scholarships.

The ICOAA gave out 26 scholarships totaling $25,000, and these awards:

Peter Dispirito Community service Award – Vicki Evans

Wayne Hussey Community Service Award – Gail Palmer

Raymond Jorgenson Organization award – Anchorage Ducal Court (Mikel Wiles and Colleen Crinklaw)

Rochelle DeLite Fairbanks Community Award – PFLAG of Fairbanks

President’s Service to the Board Award – Mary Bess Bohall

The following are new awards decreed by Emperor and Empress Kevin and MeMe:

Lynn “Honey” Howard Court Member of the Year – Dan Thunder aka Bella and Aaron Finch

Michael Meeks Denali Award – Denali Emperor 25 Mikey LaChoy and Denali Emperor 31 Scott Turner

Misty Dawn Aurora Award – Aurora Empress 28 Eve, Aurora Empress 29 Joani LaChoy and Aurora Empress 31 Vicki Evans aka Sister Mary Sunshine

Congratulations to all of the award and scholarship recipients!

The Imperial Court is the oldest and largest not-for-profit GLBTA organization in the state of Alaska. They give scholarships to Alaskan students each year, and raise money for other charitable organizations in the state.

Channel 11 aired a short interview with the previous Emperor & Empress, Kevin & MeMe, at Coronation. (The story incorrectly states that the Emperor & Empress were elected at Coronation, but the voting took place on August 21, and that the Duke & Duchess were also announced at Coronation, but the ducal balls were held earlier in the summer. Still, we appreciate the coverage of our events.)

Watch the story:

Federal judge rules DADT unconstitutional

Thursday, 9 September 2010 – 11:21 PM | Comments Off on Federal judge rules DADT unconstitutional
Federal judge rules DADT unconstitutional
A federal judge in Riverside, California ruled the military’s “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy to be unconstitutional on Thursday, saying that DADT is a violation of the 1st Amendment rights of gay and lesbian soldiers. The ruling came from a case filed by the Log Cabin Republicans.
U.S. District Court Judge Virginia A. Phillips said the policy banning gays did not preserve military readiness, contrary to what many supporters have argued, saying evidence shows that the policy in fact had a ‘direct and deleterious effect’ on the military.
Phillips said she would issue an injunction barring the government from enforcing the policy. However, the U.S. Department of Justice, which defended ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ during a two-week trial in Riverside, will have an opportunity to appeal that decision.
The federal government is expected to appeal, and it is unclear what the status of DADT will be in the meantime. Judge Phillips has given the plaintiffs until September 16 to respond, and the Department of Justice must submit its objections by September 23.
LCR director R. Clarke Cooper: “As an American, a veteran and an Army reserve officer, I am proud the court ruled that the arcane ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ statute violates the Constitution. Today, the ruling is not just a win for Log Cabin Republican service members, but all American service members.”
Servicemembers Legal Defense Network: “We’re pleased by the judge’s decision, but this decision is likely to be appealed and will linger for years. Congress made the DADT law 17 years ago and Congress should repeal it. The Senate will have the opportunity to do just that this month and most Americans think the Senate should seize it.”
VIDEO: Anderson Cooper discusses the ruling with Jeffrey Toobin

Suicide Prevention Week

Thursday, 9 September 2010 – 12:17 PM | 3 Comments
Suicide Prevention Week
This week is National Suicide Prevention Week, Sept. 5-11, 2010. Because of harassment and prejudice, lesbian, gay, and bisexual youth are up to four times more likely to attempt suicide than their heterosexual peers, and one quarter of young transgender people report having attempted suicide. The chances of a suicide attempt are 8 times more likely for LGBTQ youth who come from a family who rejects them.
Watch the new “Give a Damn” PSA featuring Judith Light, Modern Family‘s Jesse Tyler Ferguson, Lily Tomlin, and Parenthood‘s Mae Whitman educating people on suicide among LGBT youth:

The Trevor Project focuses on crisis and suicide prevention efforts among lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning (LGBTQ) youth. Their Y-CARE project is a guide for how you can help someone who is suicidal.
More Facts About Suicide and Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Youth:
  • In the United States, more than 34,000 people die by suicide each year (2007 Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, CDC).
  • Suicide is the third leading cause of death among 15 to 24-year-olds, accounting for over 12% of deaths in this age group; only accidents and homicide occur more frequently (2006 National Adolescent Health Information).
  • Suicide is the second leading cause of death on college campuses (2008 CDC).
  • For every completed suicide by a young person, it is estimated that 100 to 200 attempts are made (2003 Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance Survey).
  • Lesbian, gay, and bisexual youth are up to four times more likely to attempt suicide than their heterosexual peers (Massachusetts 2007 Youth Risk Survey).
  • More than 1/3 of LGB youth report having made a suicide attempt (D’Augelli AR – Clinical Child Psychiatry and Psychology 2002)
  • Nearly half of young transgender people have seriously thought about taking their lives and one quarter report having made a suicide attempt (Grossman AH, D’Augelli AR – Suicide and Life Threatening Behavior 2007)
  • Questioning youth who are less certain of their sexual orientation report even higher levels of substance abuse and depressed thoughts than their heterosexual or openly LGBT-identified peers (Poteat VP, Aragon SR, et al – Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology 2009)
  • LGB youth who come from highly rejecting families are more than 8 times as likely to have attempted suicide than LGB peers who reported no or low levels of family rejection (Ryan C, Huebner D, et al – Peds 2009;123(1):346-352)
  • It is estimated that between 20 and 40 percent of all homeless youth identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, and/or transgender (2006 National Gay & Lesbian Task Force: An Epidemic of Homelessness). 62% of homeless LGB youth will attempt suicide at least once—more than two times as many as their heterosexual peers (Van Leeuwen JMm et al – Child Welfare 2005)
Being a teenager is hard enough, but being an LGBT teenager with an unsupportive family can feel overwhelming. If you are a youth who is feeling alone, confused or in crisis, please call The Trevor Lifeline at 1-866-4-U-TREVOR for immediate help. You are not alone!

Sara’s News Roundup 9/5/10

Sunday, 5 September 2010 – 1:23 PM | Comments Off on Sara’s News Roundup 9/5/10
Sara’s News Roundup 9/5/10
Recent LGBT news selected by Sara Boesser in Juneau, Alaska.
1) Professor’s Book Is First to Explore Two-Spirit Literature in Northwest Native Groups
Newswise, August 24, 2010
2) Peter, Paul, & Mary’s Warning to NOM
Advocate, August 31, 2010
3) 28th Annual Conference of the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association, Sept. 22-25, 2010, San Diego
San Diego, Calif., Gay and Lesbian Medical Association
4) Same-sex marriage gains GOP support
Washington Post, August 27, 2010
5) British expat makes history with first foreign gay marriage in Nepal
U.K., Telegraph, August 30, 2010
6) Morning AARP: Slow Motion — Women tennis players in slow motion
AARP, ShAARP Session, August 26, 2010
7) Newspaper Will Allow Legal Gay Wedding Announcements
Omaha, Nebraska, Advocate, August 30, 2010
8) Delia (formerly David): ‘I was trapped in the wrong body’
U.K., The Independent, August 10, 2010
9) Should a parent seek therapy for a child who crosses the gender divide?
Miami Herald, August 31, 2010
10) Old and bold: North Shore group reaches out to the gay senior community
Newburyport, Mass., Newburyport Current, August 27, 2010
11) Tim Gunn Book on Celibacy, Antigay Dad
Advocate, September 3, 2010
12) Court overturns duo’s transgender legal recognition
West Australia, ABC News, September 2, 2010
13) New Miss Universe for Marriage Equality
Mexico, Advocate, September 2, 2010
14) Fidel Castro takes ‘responsibility’ for persecution of Cuban gays
Los Angeles Times, September 2, 2010

GLAAD media training in Anchorage

Saturday, 4 September 2010 – 7:14 AM | Comments Off on GLAAD media training in Anchorage
GLAAD media training in Anchorage
What would you say – and how would you say it – if a reporter, coworker or neighbor who is not yet an ally asked why we need LGBT rights? What are the best ways to get across our message of equality and be understood?
A top gay media strategist is coming to Anchorage next weekend to teach the LGBT community how to speak to the public and the media to advance equal rights in Alaska.
Adam Bass, a Senior Media Strategist at GLAAD in Los Angeles, is coming to Anchorage to offer a media workshop for the LGBT community and allies. Community members, religious and organization leaders, and allies are invited to come to the workshop.
The event will be from 10am to 1pm on Saturday, September 11, at the conference room in the lower level of 1057 West Fireweed Lane.
The workshop will focus on how to tell our stories and build support through media advocacy. By ensuring that the stories of LGBT people are heard through the media, we will promote understanding, increase acceptance, and advance equality.
Participants will learn the ins and outs of communications strategy, talking points, media interviews, and the power of telling their story.
Communications work, like lobbying or door knocking, involves strategy that can move public opinion about issues to accomplish a goal. This advocacy workshop will give you the resources you need to speak up about equality, to move public opinion, and to help make equality in Anchorage a reality!
The workshop will be free of charge. For more information, please contact Adam Bass, Senior Media Strategist at GLAAD, the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation.
We can all be more media savvy to advance LGBT rights in Anchorage. Don’t miss this excellent opportunity.

Alaska Pride Conference 2010

Friday, 3 September 2010 – 5:49 AM | Comments Off on Alaska Pride Conference 2010
Alaska Pride Conference 2010
The 17th annual Alaska Pride Conference will be held on Saturday, October 9, 2010 from 8 am to 4:30 pm at Alaska Pacific University in the Carr-Gottstein Building. The conference organizers are calling for workshop proposals and vendor applications. The forms are available for download at Identity, Inc.
Workshop Proposals are due by Sept. 15, and Vendor Applications must be submitted and paid in full by Sept. 30.
They have a special deal with the WestMark Hotel downtown for those who live outside of Anchorage, and have secured a block of rooms for just $75 a night. To make your reservation, please call their reservations department toll free at (1-800-544-0970). Ask for the 17th Annual PRIDE Conference sleeping room rate and they will be happy to confirm your reservation over the phone.
The AK Pride Conference is held every year in Anchorage, on or near National Coming Out Day (Oct 11). The mission is to facilitate unity within the queer communities of Alaska and our Allies, to promote equality for all, and to provide education and fun.
If you have any questions, please contact Johnathan or visit the AK Pride Conference 2010 Facebook page.