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Lucy Frey Inducted into Alaska Women’s Hall of Fame

Tuesday, 10 March 2009 – 6:04 PM | One Comment
Lucy Frey Inducted into Alaska Women’s Hall of Fame

Lucy Frey, a founder of Alaska’s lesbian community, was inducted into the Alaska Women’s Hall of Fame on March 6 as a member of the inaugural class. Frey is honored as a “social studies educator [and] feminist leader.”

The Hall of Fame inducted 50 women who have made or are making significant contributions to the shaping of Alaska. Seven of the 13 living inductees were present and most are supporters of the lesbian and gay community, according to the Grrlzlist, including Carol Comeau, Dana Fabe, Katie Hurley, Sarah James, Arliss Sturgulewski, Fran Ulmer and Esther Wunnicke.

“I remember Lucy Frey for two things,” wrote Rosemary Shinohara in an ADN editorial Some Teacher.

“She was my most memorable teacher at Clark Junior High. I loved social studies in seventh grade. Getting to stay after to work on the bulletin boards was a big treat. She put up with troublemakers. She furthered a passion for school that carried me through many years. And she often played Scrabble with my mother, a school secretary and die-hard Catholic. I went along for the games.

“I had no idea at the time that Lucy Frey had a life outside Scrabble and classrooms. But last week, she was among 50 women named to the first Alaska Women’s Hall of Fame induction, alongside such notables as Tlingit civil rights leader Elizabeth Peratrovich and Mary Louise Rasmuson of the Rasmuson Foundation.

“Now I find that she was a peace activist, noted Alaska feminist and rabble rouser.

“She handed out pledge cards downtown, asking people to resist violence. She co-owned the Alaska Women’s Bookstore. She helped launch the Alaska Women’s Political Caucus.

“Organizers of the Hall of Fame — a handful of women’s organizations — say many feminist causes originated over potluck dinners in her living room.

“I don’t know how Lucy and my mother became friends — I’ve always thought of my mother as having been a more traditional mom, certainly not someone to hang out with feminists. But I’m glad it happened.

“I always knew Lucy Frey was a special teacher. Now I know she was a special human being too.”

Many LGBT people and our allies knew Lucy and enjoyed the lesbian groups and events she helped to create. Although I moved to Alaska just after she retired to Missouri, I heard much about her, especially the potlucks and the Sing-Along.

What are your thoughts on Lucy Frey’s contributions to Alaska? Share your stories of Lucy in the comments.

LGB and T Resources for Schools and Staff in Alaska

Thursday, 26 February 2009 – 3:30 PM | Comments Off on LGB and T Resources for Schools and Staff in Alaska
LGB and T Resources for Schools and Staff in Alaska
As reported last week, the Fairbanks North Star Borough School District passed a motion to include “gender identity” as a protected group in all six non-discrimination and anti-harassment policies at their Feb 17 meeting. 
“Quite a few people testified,” writes Tim Stallard. “Those testifying against the change … mainly expressed concerns about bathroom usage and why we need to define new groups for protection from discrimination.” He asks us to email the school board and thank them for their courageous vote. 
Now that the policy is in place, Barbara McCarthy wants to encourage the school board to provide good resources and training for teachers, administrators and staff on gender identity. She asked Bent’s readers, “Do you know of a good teacher/administrator in-service training program on gender identity discrimination and harassment in the schools?” Do we have people in Alaska trained to facilitate these programs?
Since then, we’ve received great program ideas, and offers of help from Alaskans who are trained to lead workshops on LGBT issues in schools or are willing to share their personal experiences with gender identity:
  • Fairbanks school counselors Jeff Walters and Lynn Harrison offered to plan the trainings. Jeff co-sponsors the Gay-Straight Alliance at West Valley High School.
  • The founders of Transgendered Alaskans Social Group (TASG) offered to share their personal stories at the workshops. 
  • Laura in Anchorage found a good Transgender workshop posted online by the National Center for Transgender Equality.
  • Sara Boesser in Juneau sent the link for the revised GLSEN Lunchbox, a training program for ending anti-LGBT bias in schools, created by the Gay Lesbian and Straight Education Network.
  • Jackie Buckley participated in the GLSEN training several years ago in Anchorage and mentioned that the original program does not include the gender identity materials added to the revised version, but we can update our materials. 
  • Jackie works with Anchorage PFLAG to support parents and the Identity Advocacy Team, which speaks to local schools and organizations. She suggested PFLAG’s Safe Schools program as another good resource.
Jeff also attended the GLSEN training and used the materials for teacher inservices. He will pull together ideas from these suggestions, other established programs, and feedback from students to develop an inservice plan. “The students are interested in issues of gender identity,” he wrote “and have given us GREAT ideas and input from their perspective for other trainings in the past.”
This is what I’ve learned:
  • We have access to good resources on LGB *and* T issues in schools. 
  • We have teachers and counselors who are trained to lead the programs.
  • We have Alaskans who will share their personal stories of being LGB *and* T with students and staff.
  • We have students, parents and staff who are interested in the issues.
  • And we have a school board in Fairbanks that is willing to protect LGB *and* T students from discrimination and harassment.
It’s a good start. So when Anchorage, Juneau and other school districts in Alaska add “gender identity” to their policies, we will know who to contact.
Thanks to everyone who responded. That was – and continues to be – a great team effort.

“Gender identity” added to Fairbanks school policies

Tuesday, 17 February 2009 – 11:36 PM | Comments Off on “Gender identity” added to Fairbanks school policies
“Gender identity” added to Fairbanks school policies

Fairbanks North Star Borough School District passed a motion to include “gender identity” as a protected group in their non-discrimination and anti-harassment policies — the first school district in Alaska to do so.

Fairbanks NSB school board vs. PTA president on gender identity

Wednesday, 11 February 2009 – 4:20 PM | Comments Off on Fairbanks NSB school board vs. PTA president on gender identity
Fairbanks NSB school board vs. PTA president on gender identity

In a first for Alaska, the Fairbanks North Star Borough School District is set to add gender identity to its non-discrimination and anti-harassment policies — over the objections of the PTA president of the school that asked for advice on the policy.

Brother Outsider and Black History Month

Monday, 2 February 2009 – 11:09 PM | Comments Off on Brother Outsider and Black History Month
Bayard Rustin

February is national Black History Month, and the Anchorage Urban League is co-sponsoring a showing and discussion of Brother Outsider: The Life of Bayard Rustin at the Anchorage Museum, along with Identity, the ACLU of Alaska and other sponsors.

The life of one gay Alaskan

Saturday, 10 January 2009 – 9:12 AM | One Comment
The life of one gay Alaskan

Slade, a gay young man in Alaska, takes a lot of photos and creates music video slide shows of himself, his friends and their activities.

National Drag History Month

Sunday, 4 January 2009 – 2:49 PM | Comments Off on National Drag History Month
National Drag History Month
January 2009 marks the first-ever celebration of National Drag History Month!
“This month-long event salutes the richness of drag culture and pays tribute to the courageous queens & kings who have fought for equality while inspiring, educating & entertaining us all,” according to Logo, the sponsors of Drag History Month.
Come celebrate Drag History Month in Fairbanks at ICOAA‘s Masquerade Ball, January 10 at the Carlson Center, 8 p.m. The evening includes a drag show, food, and a contest awarding $100 for the best mask.

Jason: An ex-gay survivor from Alaska tells his story

Sunday, 14 September 2008 – 10:49 AM | One Comment
Jason: An ex-gay survivor from Alaska tells his story

The ex-gay conference Love Won Out came to Alaska to promote “reparative” therapy. Jason Ingram describes their methods in his personal story.

Rev. Johnathan’s New Journey: From Anchorage MCC to Edinburgh

Monday, 21 July 2008 – 8:43 PM | Comments Off on Rev. Johnathan’s New Journey: From Anchorage MCC to Edinburgh
Rev. Johnathan’s New Journey: From Anchorage MCC to Edinburgh
Reverend Johnathan Jones, pastor of the Metropolitan Community Church (MCC) in Anchorage for four years until his resignation in May, accepted a position as Interim Pastor at Edinburgh MCC and was introduced to Scotland’s LGBTA community during last Sunday’s service. 
Rev. Jones worked hard to build the all-inclusive MCC church in Anchorage. His efforts and his personal manner were appreciated by many in the community, and his resignation was a shock.
The church hosted a farewell potluck in Johnathan’s honor, and he left Alaska in early June. He was back last week to deal with visa issues and visited with friends and church members. When he returned to Scotland, he sent this message to MCC Anchorage, the LGBT community and our allies:
It was such a pleasure to see you all again so soon. Now I am back in Edinburgh and have started working at a fast pace. Yesterday (July 20) was my first Sunday back and we celebrated MCC Edinburgh‘s 13th birthday. We had over 40 people in attendance and had a wonderful service. 
I have recently been reading a Thomas Merton book and there was a fabulous quote in there that I would like to share with you:
“Only when we see ourselves in our true human conditions as “one body” will we begin to understand the positive importance not only of the successes but of the failures and accidents in our lives. My successes are not my own. The way to them was prepared by others. The fruit of my labors is not my own: for I am preparing the way for the achievements of another. Nor are my failures my own. They may spring from the failure of another, but they are also compensated for by another’s achievement.” (Thomas Merton, No Man Is An Island)
As I read this passage, I was reminded of my time in Anchorage. I thought about my successes with the church and my failures with the church, but this passage made me realize that neither the successes nor the failures were solely my own. WE worked hard as a Church to outreach to the GLBT community of Anchorage. WE worked hard to establish a strong Building Fund account. WE worked hard to build An Inclusive Church. And there is a liberation in knowing that where we failed, we failed together and we learned together.
As I now move on another journey with MCC Edinburgh, I will always remember with joy my time with my first church. I will always keep in mind the invaluable lessons I learned during my four years with all of you. In the same manner, there are many things that MCC Anchorage can learn as you grow into your new journey.
I will pray for you often, and I will be back in January to visit with you. If you would like to keep in contact with me, I am keeping the same email address.
God Bless You.
Love,
Rev. Johnathan
Interim Pastor
MCC Edinburgh

CowGal Val and Ravenhurst: Lesbian and Gay Bloggers Who Lived in Alaska (But Don’t Now)

Wednesday, 16 July 2008 – 4:55 PM | Comments Off on CowGal Val and Ravenhurst: Lesbian and Gay Bloggers Who Lived in Alaska (But Don’t Now)
CowGal Val and Ravenhurst: Lesbian and Gay Bloggers Who Lived in Alaska (But Don’t Now)
CowGal Val and Ravenhurst are two blogs by LGBT people who used to live in Alaska.

CowGal Val is written by Valerie and Deborah, a lesbian couple from Anchorage who are now living in Portland, Oregon.
In early June, Valerie was diagnosed with stage four lung cancer. Val and Deborah created the blog to keep “friends and family all the heck over the place in the loop about Val, Deborah, lung cancer, and our community’s capacity for amazing generosity of spirit.” 
In addition to treatment updates, they post about their dog, their friends, learning from cancer, and enjoying daily life. When Val began chemotherapy, they posted video of shaving her head and wrote about the experience of being bald. 
If you know Valerie and Deborah, or even if you don’t know them personally, drop by CowGal Val and leave a note of encouragement. A message from someone who cares can brighten a dark chemo day.
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Ravenhurst is written by Richard, a 56 year old gay widower who lived in Fairbanks for 19 years and now lives on a five acre ranch near Paradise, California. He writes about gay news, politics, and his life in rural California, including his participation as a friend and witness in the first gay and lesbian marriages in the county. 
Like CowGal Val, Ravenhurst was created in response to a life-changing event. Five months ago, Richard’s life partner and soulmate Steve passed away. Richard began blogging through the grief and just kept going.
Richard was almost evacuated last week because of a fire burning out of control near Paradise. Luckily, Ravenhurst – his homestead and his blog – was spared, and Richard continues to post on life, love, and interesting gay news. Go say Hello from Alaska.
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Do you know other LGBT (ex-)Alaskan bloggers? Send in their links and they will be featured in another post. While you’re here, check out the category Where Are They Now? for news about LGBT people who once lived in Alaska but now live somewhere else.