Sunday, 6 October 2013 – 5:19 PM
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Bent Alaska’s blog will continue in hiatus indefinitely; but the Bent Alaska Facebook Group on Facebook is thriving — join us! A long-overdue update from Bent Alaska’s editor.
Thursday, 22 January 2009 – 9:44 AM
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Anchorage comedian and certified hypnotist Jay Her will perform a new Adult Comedy Hypnosis Show at Mad Myrna’s this Saturday, Jan. 24 at 9 p.m.
Members of the audience become celebrities on stage when they chase invisible objects, milk non-existant cows, sing in a foreign rap contest, and act in other hilarious skits while hypnotized.
The participants are volunteers and the show is completely real.
Jay Her learned the art of stage hypnosis from a Stage Hypnotist Trainer, and is trained in hypnotherapeutic techniques to provide a safe experience for the participants.
He attends annual trainings to provide new material and the most enjoyable experience for both participants and audience members.
The Comedy Hypnosis Show can be designed for an adult audience, like the shows at Myrna’s, or for family-friendly events with age-appropriate material.
Jay has performed for corporate parties, festivals, conferences, private parties, and service organizations.
Adult Comedy Hypnosis Show at Mad Myrna’s, Jan. 24 at 9 p.m. Admission is $10.
Tuesday, 20 January 2009 – 2:02 PM
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Today is Barack Obama’s inauguration as President of the United States.
“We are truly in for an era of change,” wrote Brian the day after Obama was elected, “an era that could not have come at a better time.”
Brian, 25, vlogs on gay rights and other issues from Fairbanks, Alaska as thenewBMW. This Nov. 5 video congratulates Obama on his election victory, thanks the voters, and supports Obama’s appeal for unity.
Monday, 19 January 2009 – 11:22 PM
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Allison Mendel is a lawyer in Anchorage. Her and her partner were married in California two days before the voters rescinded the right for same-sex couples to marry. The following editorial appeared in the Anchorage Daily News on Dec 29.
Barriers to same-sex marriage should come tumbling down
I have been a so-called “gay activist” for at least 20 years. Marriage used to be a little controversial as a gay cause. In the beginning, a minority of gay activists firmly adopted marriage as the ultimate 20th century gay cause. A louder majority called it a sellout, a throwback to paternalistic social forms, an unworthy goal.
The minority, through obstinate and painstaking work, became the majority. I joined the cause early — I came to see that excluding same-sex couples from this supremely ordinary, ubiquitous state marked us as less than human more than anti-gay violence or workplace discrimination ever did. Because it affected everyone, every day.
Marital status? Spouse’s name? Next of kin? You can’t even go to the doctor without being asked these questions. We were left outside the nomenclature that defined everyone else — with no way in.
Even as I believed all that, and fought for marriage, I never thought that I yearned to be married myself. I am a divorce lawyer who knows very well that the blessed state of marriage often is not. Blessed, that is.
Imagine my surprise when the California Supreme Court announced that excluding same-sex couples from marriage is unconstitutional. Suddenly, almost anyone who wanted to, could get married in California. And after all these years I realized that I wanted to. Apparently it was simply sour grapes when I thought I did not care, personally, if I could ever get married. I did care, and I do care. I wanted the same chance everyone else has to “tie the knot,” “walk down the aisle,” and “hear the wedding bells chime.” I felt like the lame who can walk and the blind who can see. So we went and got married in California.
Two days later the California voters pulled the plug. They don’t want me to be married any more.
This should not have come as a surprise. Nearly every time voters anywhere in the country have been asked to vote on same-sex marriage, they have said no. But this time I was shocked.
I find I don’t want to go quietly any more. I want someone to explain to me why anyone else cares whether I am married or not. It matters a whole lot to me, to my family and to my new spouse.
Religion can’t be the reason, because my religion allows it, and we don’t let other people’s religions determine my legal rights.
I don’t want to have to win a popularity contest for my marriage any more — who else has to have their wedding plans approved by the electorate? I can no longer imagine any serious public policy reason why anyone is better off if I choose to spend my life with my partner but can’t marry her.
Unfortunately, gay rights really is the 21st century civil rights struggle. We are the only ones left whose basic rights still have to win a majority vote. I don’t think Obama would be president today if we had approached racial equality this way. We don’t expect approbation or approval, just tolerance. Just let us be married.
Friday, 16 January 2009 – 3:06 PM
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Check out this week’s events from Alaska GLBT News.
For full listings, news and up-coming events, subscribe to AGN, the weekly email newsletter.
Womyn’s Dance Survey
Carolyn, who organizes the womyn’s dances, wants to know more about our taste in dance music. She set up a quick dance survey for Anchorage womyn. Please answer a few questions to make our dances even better.
Update: I posted about Joseph on Thursday night, and Monday’s Anchorage Daily News online has a long story on him and his webisodes. You go, girl!
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Want to know the truth about hairdressing? Have questions about sex – or about Alaska – that you were afraid to ask? Looking for beauty tips from an expert?
Here’s your chance to get advice from “the real Queen of Alaska!”
“Who the hell is Joseph? What the hell is this?” reads the description on the video’s YouTube page. “Watch, dear viewers, and all mysteries will be answered.”
Watch his queenly two minute introduction below. Then go to JtheH.com and watch his ten minute video tour of outdoor day trips near Anchorage.
Wednesday, 14 January 2009 – 3:39 PM
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The Juneau Unitarian Universalist Fellowship (JUUF) is asking the LGBT community for help.
The JUUF is working to purchase the historic church building on the corner of 5th and Main Street in downtown Juneau, the second oldest church in the city. The financing plan includes raising at least $125,000 from members and friends.
“JUUF openly welcomes lesbian, gay, and transgender people and honors our contributions to the community and to society,” reads the message from SEAGLA, the Southeast Alaska Gay and Lesbian Alliance.
SEAGLA members support the Fellowship for several reasons:
JUUF has been an active voice for equal rights for the LGBT community of Juneau.
It has been financially supportive of both PFLAG and the Pride Chorus.
It is a “Red Ribbon Congregation” working toward a world without AIDS.
JUUF members have marched in the 4th of July parade with a banner that says “Unitarian Universalists are for Equal Rights for Gays.”
How can you help? New donations received before February 1 will be matched more than double their value.
Please send a check to JUUF – Capital Campaign, PO Box 20064, Juneau, AK 99802. Even the smallest contributions at this time will help. Thank you.
Tuesday, 13 January 2009 – 12:26 PM
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Anchorage PFLAG will be showing “Further Off the Straight and Narrow: New Gay Visibility on T.V. from 1998 thru 2006” on January 15 at 7 p.m., during the monthly meeting at Immanuel Presbyterian Church.
“Further Off the Straight & Narrow” looks at sitcoms, reality shows, and premium cable programming and explores how GLBT characters on television are becoming more complex and varied. View the preview.
Friday, 9 January 2009 – 4:26 PM
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Check out this week’s events from Alaska GLBT News.
For full listings, news and up-coming events, subscribe to AGN, the weekly email newsletter.
The deadline for the RAW Short Story Contest is next Thursday, Jan. 15. Open to all women living in Alaska. The pieces must be fiction, between 250 and 5,000 words, and contain some lesbian content. For prizes and guidelines, see Radical Arts for Women.
EVENTS
Juneau
Miniature Golf New Year Social 1/10, 4 p.m. at the JACC. Contact SEAGLA.
Thursday, 8 January 2009 – 12:54 AM
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The GLBT community in Juneau and their friends are invited to play miniature golf for a New Year Social, on Saturday, January 10, at 4 p.m. at the Juneau Arts and Cultural Center.
“The JACC miniature golf course is really incredible, simple to do, and very fun,” said the announcement from SEAGLA, the Southeast Alaska Gay and Lesbian Alliance. “It will be fun for the whole family.”
SEAGLA has paid for the first hour of golfing, so don’t be late! Pay-your-own-way golfing continues until 6 p.m. for $5 per round of golf.
Participants can make donations to SEAGLA or renew their memberships for 2009, and can make donations toward the cost of the golf course rental, which is a fundraiser for JACC.
The Juneau Arts & Humanities Council web site has a slide show of the JACC sculpture garden miniature golf course.
SEAGLA also holds Social Fridays from 6-8 p.m. at the Imperial Bar in downtown Juneau. GLBT people and friends over 21 are invited to have a drink and unwind from the work week, meet new people and catch up with friends.
Visit SEAGLA for more information about GLBT activities in Southeast Alaska.
The very real consequences of DADT repeal; seeking survivor benefits for same-sex partner of Alaska shooting victim; waiting on SCOTUS decision about whether it will hear Prop 8 case; and other recent LGBTQ news selected by Sara Boesser in Juneau, Alaska.
In this month’s “Ask Lambda Legal” column, Lambda Legal answers a question about the federal government’s longstanding ban against donations of blood from men who have sex with men (MSM).
Alaska Pride Conference 2012 kicks off on October 5 with a First Friday showing at Tref.Punkt Studio of Love is Love, a photographic exhibit of LGBT couples from across the state.
United for marriage: Light the way to justice. The U.S. Supreme Court will hear oral arguments this Tuesday and Wednesday, March 26–27, in two cases about freedom to marry. Please join us on Tuesday, March 26, at the federal courthouse in Anchorage (7th & C) in a circle united for equality.
Pariah, a critically acclaimed film about a 17-year-old African-American woman embracing her lesbian identity, will screen at UAA on Friday, November 2, and will be followed by a discussion on acceptance in honor of Mya Dale. The event is free and open to the public.