by E. Ross

A woman describes an evening at home with her son, an evening that occurred many years ago but is just as clear to her today. “He reached over and turned the radio off and said the ten words that changed my life: ‘Mom, have you ever wondered if I might be gay?'”

Anyone and Everyone tells the stories of families from Utah to North Carolina and Wyoming to New York, all connected by a common thread – a gay or lesbian child. This poignant and often heartbreaking documentary by first-time filmmaker Susan Polis Schutz (also the parent of a gay son) reveals moments of ‘coming out’ to parents and the family process of coming to terms with a child’s sexual orientation.

The film features parents from a wide range of religions, ethnicities, and political leanings, discussing their initial reactions to their child’s coming out. While a few showed unconditional support, others struggled with the new information, fearing alienation from their extended family, their church, or their community. Some parents simply did not understand the universal nature of homosexuality, and that it can affect anyone and everyone.  

Whether Japanese, Cherokee, Mormon, Catholic, or Hindu, these families all share a deep love for their children, along with the struggle for acceptance, both in their own home and within society as a whole. 

Anyone & Everyone is airing on PBS stations around the country, often followed by a presentation on local resources and personal reactions to the film. 

Anyone & Everyone in Alaska

In April, Anyone & Everyone will be shown across the state of Alaska, along with a panel discussion led by Mayor Bruce Botelho on resources for Alaskan families with gay kids. The panel will be filmed in KTOO’s studio in Juneau tonight, and supporters are encouraged to attend and to share their reactions to the film.

The Juneau chapter of PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays) made the video available for preview and held several screenings prior to the discussion. They also spoke to Juneau’s Cooperative Council of Churches and sent a flier to the Juneau Human Rights Commission, the Statewide Suicide Prevention Council, and members of a recent Suicide Prevention Roundtable.

One of the screenings was held before a service at the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship. “The reaction was great,” wrote Sara Boesser, representing PFLAG. “During the service, the leader of the day spoke in his sharing time about how he had two older brothers, both of whom were gay, and he wished that there had been a movie like this to help his parents and whole family.”

Anyone & Everyone depicts PFLAG meetings where families get support and help. The national organization of Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays promotes the health and well-being of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons, their families and friends through support, education and advocacy. With over 500 local chapters, PFLAG provides opportunities for dialogue about sexual orientation, to create a society that is healthy and respectful of human diversity.

This film is especially important since up to 26% of gay teens who come out to their parents or guardians are told they must leave home. Of the approximately 1.6 million homeless American youth, 20-40% identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender. Nearly 40% of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender students report being physically harassed.

KTOO is showing Anyone and Everyone on Thursday, March 27 at 4:30 p.m. in the Conference Room. The panel discussion led by Mayor Bruce Botelho will follow the screening at 5:30 p.m. in the KTOO-TV studio. Anyone & Everyone airs statewide on April 17 on Alaska ONE and KAKM, followed by a half-hour production of Juneau’s panel discussion. 

For information on the panel and broadcast, contact KTOO-TV or PFLAG Juneau. To learn more about Anyone and Everyone and to watch the trailer, visit www.anyoneandeveryone.com.